以前的乡巴佬怎么消失了，在农村以前随处可见三五成群的人唠嗑，现在怎么见不到了

在农村以前随处可见三五成群的人崂嗑，现在怎么见不到了以前的乡巴佬怎么消失了？。并不奇怪，以前和现在，伴随社会前进，人们物质生活条件发生了巨大变化，衣食用品，琳琅满目，丰富多彩。時代不同了，人们追求当然也会与時俱进，谁不想囊中不再羞涩，小日子红红火火，宽松舒心。

靠墨守成规种地，仅能维持温饱，遇上歉收，就有可能吃糠嚥菜。因此农村的年轻人、甚至老人，大都选择进城务工，多收入几块。而且辛苦程度还轻于面对黄土背朝天，挣钱也快。

有了第一个吃螃蟹的，由城市返回乡村，鼓起的腰包一传十，十传百，不仅能引起乡下人轰动，而且也会惊动十里八乡，无数人的关心和动心。势必形成入城打工潮流，农村留守看家、岂不成为婦女儿童和行动不便的老人，地也得种吧？农活还忙不过来？又怎能有游手好闲，百无聊赖之人。因此过去三五成群唠嗑，现实中也就不会存在。所以并不奇怪。

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筷子兄弟是由王太利与肖央二人打造的传奇组合，两个人年龄相差11岁，而且一个人是做音乐的，另一个人是做媒体，两个人能组合在一起，也算是一个奇迹。

早在多年前，肖央还是一名电影学院的学生，收到了王太利的邀请，准备拍摄一则广告，在拍完广告之后，王太利发现肖央很有实力，就想邀请肖央一起建个组合，二人也是十分投契，可能这就算是缘分吧，筷子兄弟组合就这样诞生了。

就在筷子兄弟诞生的第一年，就拿到了不错的成绩，二人主演的音乐电影《男艺伎回忆录》首发，后来《老男孩》《小苹果》也陸续岀台，火爆了网络，2015年二人还登上了春晚。

随着时间的推移，社会人才辈岀和时代的进步，他们二人的作词作曲已经不被大家那么喜爱了，《小苹果》也就成了他们的巅峰之作，慢慢地开始走下坡路了。

毕竟二人的年纪有差距，梦想有所不同，天下没有不散的宴席。肖央便选择了进军演艺圈，这几年通过排戏综艺等，也的确积攒了些人气和资金。

而王太利则依然地追寻着音乐的梦想，但是制作音乐都是件烧钱的事，需要大量的资金，尽管自己已经很窘迫了，但是王太利依然坚持借钱做音乐，他对于音乐的痴迷，别人是无法理解的。希望王太利能坚持下去，能给我们带来更多更好的作品。

筷子兄弟时代就这样结束了， 让人有些感叹和遗憾！

听到村里结婚不满一年的小两口离婚的消息，农村群众挠挠头，咋想也想不通，家里装了大电视机、空调，甚至洗衣机，也不用你自己洗衣服，生活负担明显减轻，这媳妇怎么一年跑得比一年多？农村咋就留不住人了呢？其实，原因有以下三

一、城市化进程加快，人口流动随之加快

在中国改革开放后，城市发展迅速，大量的农村青年为了生计涌入城市中，车水马龙、灯红酒绿的繁华城市让农村人视野扩宽，见识到不同的生活习俗，同时生活习惯发生改变，接受新兴的思想。一对夫妻为了赚钱可能会分居两地，距离、时间、思想上的改变，产生各自的社交圈，在一起见面也没有共同话题，离婚也成了大势所趋。

二、女性意识崛起，摆脱在家相夫教子的传统21世纪农村的物质条件不断改善，教育普及提高，农村人也不是大字不识一个的乡巴佬了，在温饱不愁的日子里，人们想得更多是如何提高自己的知识水平，追求更高的生活质量。有些农村人思想上仍旧处于落后状态，男性用暴力手段控制妻子，觉得这是我老婆，我不打谁打？但是相较于传统的家庭环境，现代女性们不愿意向自己的母辈一样，为夫是命，唯唯诺诺，失去自我，对于不幸福的婚姻她们会勇敢的说不，努力保障自己的权益。

三、固定死板的婚恋观埋藏隐患以往在农村，女性多看重男性是否老实，男性多看重女性是否贤惠，忽略最重要的感情因素，只要二者契合一段婚姻便形成了。另外“父母之命媒妁之言”，农村的年轻人们盲目听从父母的要求，匆忙结婚逃避压力，但俗话说，鞋子要自己穿才知道合不合适。在感情薄弱的基础上，一旦有任何鸡毛蒜皮的小事都会闹得不可开交，女性及时清醒，摆脱错误的婚姻，抽身离开。

在传统观念中，农村绝大多数人不会轻易离婚，这是一件会成为街坊邻居的饭后谈资的事情。但是社会的车轮不断前进，个人的力量无法阻挡。在这个多元化的社会环境中，有着觉醒意识的女性们更看重自己在婚姻中的独立地位，而不是一提及就是某某家的老婆，思想上的解放、经济上的宽裕，女性可以独立生存是她们离婚的资本。

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Hearing the news of the divorce of the young couple who had been married for less than a year in the village, the rural people scratched their heads and couldn't imagine how to get through it. They installed a large TV set, air conditioner and even a washing machine in their home, and did not wash their clothes by themselves. The living burden was significantly reduced. How can the countryside not keep people? In fact, there are three reasons.

First, the urbanization process is accelerating, and the population flow is accelerating

After China's reform and opening up, cities developed rapidly, and a large number of rural youth flocked to cities for their livelihood. The bustling cities with heavy traffic and bright lights broaden the vision of rural people, allowing them to see different life customs. At the same time, their living habits changed and they accepted new ideas. In order to make money, a couple may live apart. Distance, time, and changes in thinking create their own social circles. When they meet together, they have no common topics to discuss.

Second, the rise of female consciousness, getting rid of the tradition of taking care of husband and children at home

In the 21st century, the material conditions in rural areas are constantly improving, and the popularization of education is improving. Rural people are no longer a country bumpkin who does not know a single character. In the days of food and clothing, people think more about how to improve their knowledge level and pursue a higher quality of life. Some rural people are still in a backward state of mind. Men use violent means to control their wives. They think this is my wife. However, compared with the traditional family environment, modern women are not willing to be like their mothers, who are obedient to their husbands and lose themselves. They will bravely say no to an unhappy marriage and strive to protect their own rights and interests.

Third, fixed and rigid view of love and marriage buried hidden dangers

In the past, in rural areas, women pay more attention to the honesty of men, men pay more attention to the virtue of women, ignoring the most important emotional factors, as long as the two fit a marriage will be formed. In addition, "their parents' orders are arranged by the matchmaker". In the countryside, young people blindly follow their parents' demands and get married in a hurry to escape the pressure. But as the saying goes, the shoes don't fit until you wear them. On the basis of weak feelings, once there are any trivial matters will make a bee, women timely sober up, get rid of the wrong marriage, get away.

In the traditional view, the vast majority of people in the countryside will not easily divorce, this is a thing that will become the after-dinner talk of the neighbors. But the wheels of society move forward, and individual power cannot be held back. In this diversified social environment, women with awakening consciousness pay more attention to their independent status in marriage, rather than mentioning the wife of a certain family. Ideological liberation, economic wealth, and women's ability to survive independently are the capital of their divorce.